Thursday, December 30, 2010

Dr. Roz and Kil: My Boyfriend's Acting Different...What Could It Be?


My BF met my parents recently. We have dated for nearly a year. Apparently my father had a conversation with him and the gist of the convo was that I am a good woman with my share of flaws and that I will not wait for ever (for him to decide when to move to the next step). Since this conversation (about 3 weeks ago) he has spent time with me but has gone out every night, either with friends or alone. I am not sure what to make out of this new behavior and I and having a hard time determining how to address it with him without appearing to be a nag. Any suggestions or insight? Thanks!

Kil's 2 Cents
Well, that's what's up that you don't wanna seem like a nag but truth be told, if you bring up something we (men) don't wanna talk about, we'll probably label you a nag anyway, so you might as well ask him. If your boyfriend took your father serious about their convo, he may be pulling back if he's not ready to take that next step or he could just be showing off. But if he's pulling back because he's not ready to take that next step, he should tell you that and then you'll have to decide whether to stay with him or leave the relationship IF you're ready to take the next step. But like I tell everyone who asks questions around here, you gotta ask your mate because he can be doing these things for a wide range of reason and all Roz and I can do is assume.

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